“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” – Chrissy, age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” – Terri, age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” – Danny, age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.” – Emily, age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” – Bobby, age 7

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” – Nikka, age 6

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” – Noelle, age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” – Tommy, age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” – Cindy, age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” – Clare, age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” – Elaine, age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Brad Pitt.” – Chris, age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” – Mary Ann, age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” – Lauren, age 4

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” – Rebecca, age 8

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” – Karen, age 7

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” – Jessica, age 8

Can I just say the girl in that picture is the cutest kid I’ve ever seen?

”…little stars come out of you.”

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Masalah bisa jadi jembatan untuk menyelami banyak hal. Untuk mereka yang baru menjalani hubungan, masalah bisa jadi kesempatan untuk mengetahui karakter masing-masing. Namun tentu saja harus di iringi keinginan untuk saling peduli. Bila akhirnya ditemui masalah dan kemudian hanya berdiam, masih acuh tak acuh, maka kesempatan untuk menyelami banyak hal istimewa itu akan hilang secara sia-sia.

Untuk mereka yang berkarir, masalah bukanlah saat untuk diam terpuruk. Masalah bisa menjadi indikator sampai sejauh mana kemampuan bertahan anda. Ujian terberat adalah bagaimana anda bisa melihat masalah sebagai bekal anda untuk menempa diri anda agar siap untuk masalah yang lebih besar. Bila kata surrender yang anda pilih, maka hanya tanda titik diakhir kalimat yang anda dapatkan.

Keheningan dan Ketidakpedulian bukanlah cara yang baik untuk mengeksplorasi masalah. Sekali lagi, masalah adalah kesempatan emas untuk anda memperbaiki diri dan menjadi lebih baik. Buka mata dan hati serta pikiran anda, kesempatan belajar tidak datang dua kali.

Datanglah Sayang Dan Biarkan Aku Berbaring
Di Pelukanmu, walaupun ‘tuk Sejenak
Usaplah Dahiku Dan Kan Kukatakan Semua

Reff 1:
Bilaku Lelah Tetaplah Di Sini
Jangan Tinggalkan Aku Sendiri
Bilaku Marah Biarkan Ku Bersandar
Jangan Kau Pergi Untuk Menghindar
Rasakan Resahku Dan Buat Aku Tersenyum
Dengan Canda Tawamu,walaupun Tuk Sekejap
Kar’na Hanya Engkaulah Yang Sangggup Redakan Aku

Reff:
Kar’na Engkaulah Satu-satunya Untukku
Dan Pastikan Kita Selalu Bersama
Kar’na Dirimulah Yang Sanggup Mengerti Aku
Dalam Susah Maupun Senang

Brigde:
Dapatkah Engkau Selalu Menjagaku
Dan Mampukah Engkau Mempertahankanku …

Kembali Ke: Reff 1

I learn some manners from them. It’s a simple manners when Korean have a dinner. Younger should serve the older person, if it’s about drinks, the youngest person should pouring drinks with two hands. Vice versa if older serve the youngest, the youngest should hold the glass with two hands. Also the older should feed the youngest. Usually a father will give some food for the youth.

Korean likes to order various food so they can share with all people. Different with Indonesian that only order one kind of food for themselves. It’s a new thing for me, an interesting things.

Well, i learnt many things tonight. How we respect the old people and how they respect the young people. Korean is just the same like Indonesian, they have their own manners. I think Korea also has an Eastern Manners.

Jika ada pernikahan tanpa cinta, tentu ada cinta tanpa pernikahan.

Until one day, when I worked overtime, I heard from a far away.. not too clear but I can recognize what song it is! Then I ran to the voice source, until I found who’s the guy that play the song. No wasting time, i asked her to send the song via bluetooth to my E71.

Finally, after long time looking for this song, I can find it! Not accidentally found it.

Melee with “Built To Last”

Download (PDF, 49.22KB)

Spending Almost Two Months in My Hometown

Myself started to change lately. Especially my mindset. I don’t understand why but maybe it happens because here, I feel the comfortness. Everything run slowly, everything is simple.

The art of doing nothing, as what was written in Eat Pray Love, is something I enjoy the most. Dangerously, I even enjoy the art of thinking nothing. I feel the slowdown of thinking, of self-quality, especially which is related to quality of my brain.

I was then thinking that I can’t spend more time here. I will have limited thinking. Why? Because I totally have no thinking about my future at all! Seriously! Social life really influence our way of thinking.

When I was in Bandung, especially when I was with Abby, I have clear vision of my future. What I really wanna do in advance, my future plan, my to-do list for next. But being here, I could even think that what I got is what I deserve for. I don’t even remember of my obsession to traveling, to see the world, to explore the mystery inside it. And this is an alert!

I do not refuse an idea to be a person who can easily receive whatever is given. But if it runs for long time, I’m afraid I will be a human with limited thinking. Here, I don’t have any friend who can fill me in talking about future. Future for everyone in my hometown is clear and simple: work (or to get money), get married, have children, being at home peacefully. An idea of traveling around the world seems utopian even to be just opened in informal conversation with friends in living room.

Meanwhile, as for me, world keeps billions of mysteries and secrets that even cannot be explored even until we leave this world. And I pleasedly want to get involved, take part of the exploration, in every second of my life, eventhough I could only find a little bit of it.

And finally, even to keep my obsession to see the world which was very easy when I was in Bandung, I need to fight it out to keep it alive while I am in Bontang. I do not underestimate Bontang. It is only mindset difference matter. I don’t consider it as wrong or shallow. I just feel that it doesnt suit me. I dont want to stay any longer here. At the moment.

Please note that I’m using Windows 7 Ultimate 64-bit OS, A GSM modem (Huawei), and an integrated Intel WiFi on my Acer laptop. Then the purpose is to share my Dial-up connection, so my Nokia E71 can enjoy shared internet access from my GSM modem.

Firstly, please open command prompt by hit Window+R or just START>RUN and type CMD. After then, please check your device capability! Type below line and hit ENTER

netsh wlan show drivers

It will show you your device information, like below:

C:\Users\Leoui>netsh wlan show drivers

Interface name: Wireless Network Connection

    Driver                    : Intel(R) WiFi Link 1000 BGN
    Vendor                    : Intel Corporation
    Provider                  : Intel
    Date                      : 7/17/2009
    Version                   : 12.5.0.59
    INF file                  : C:\Windows\INF\oem25.inf
    Files                     : 3 total
                                C:\Windows\system32\DRIVERS\NETw1v64.sys
                                C:\Windows\system32\NETw1c64.dll
                                C:\Windows\system32\NETw1r64.dll
    Type                      : Native Wi-Fi Driver
    Radio types supported     : 802.11b 802.11g
    FIPS 140-2 mode supported : Yes
    Hosted network supported  : No
    Authentication and cipher supported in infrastructure mode:
                                Open            None
                                Open            WEP-40bit
                                Open            WEP-104bit
                                Open            WEP
                                Shared          WEP-40bit
                                Shared          WEP-104bit
                                Shared          WEP
                                WPA-Enterprise  TKIP
                                WPA-Enterprise  CCMP
                                WPA-Personal    TKIP
                                WPA-Personal    CCMP
                                WPA2-Enterprise TKIP
                                WPA2-Enterprise CCMP
                                WPA2-Personal   TKIP
                                WPA2-Personal   CCMP
                                Open            Vendor defined
    Authentication and cipher supported in ad-hoc mode:
                                Open            None
                                Open            WEP-40bit
                                Open            WEP-104bit
                                Open            WEP
                                Shared          WEP-40bit
                                Shared          WEP-104bit
                                Shared          WEP
                                WPA2-Personal   CCMP

You will note that my device unable to host network as it shows you this info “Hosted network supported : No“, So what will we do next? Stupid question! Lol, we need to update its driver! Go to Microsoft site or if you lazy, then just download it from HERE.

Okay, then after that please install and repeat previous command in CMD. Then you’ll find your device now able to host network and shows “Hosted network supported  : Yes” from below info,

C:\Users\Leoui>netsh wlan show drivers

Interface name: Wireless Network Connection

    Driver                    : Intel(R) WiFi Link 1000 BGN
    Vendor                    : Intel Corporation
    Provider                  : Intel
    Date                      : 1/13/2010
    Version                   : 13.1.1.1
    INF file                  : C:\Windows\INF\oem29.inf
    Files                     : 4 total
                                C:\Windows\system32\DRIVERS\NETw5s64.sys
                                C:\Windows\system32\NETw5c64.dll
                                C:\Windows\system32\NETw5r64.dll
                                C:\Windows\system32\drivers\vwifibus.sys
    Type                      : Native Wi-Fi Driver
    Radio types supported     : 802.11b 802.11g
    FIPS 140-2 mode supported : Yes
    Hosted network supported  : Yes
    Authentication and cipher supported in infrastructure mode:
                                Open            None
                                Open            WEP-40bit
                                Open            WEP-104bit
                                Open            WEP
                                Shared          WEP-40bit
                                Shared          WEP-104bit
                                Shared          WEP
                                WPA-Enterprise  TKIP
                                WPA-Enterprise  CCMP
                                WPA-Personal    TKIP
                                WPA-Personal    CCMP
                                WPA2-Enterprise TKIP
                                WPA2-Enterprise CCMP
                                WPA2-Personal   TKIP
                                WPA2-Personal   CCMP
                                Open            Vendor defined
    Authentication and cipher supported in ad-hoc mode:
                                Open            None
                                Open            WEP-40bit
                                Open            WEP-104bit
                                Open            WEP
                                Shared          WEP-40bit
                                Shared          WEP-104bit
                                Shared          WEP
                                WPA2-Personal   CCMP

Now, after you sure that your device is OK to host network, we step forward to the next! Go to START>RUN and type “services.msc” without quote! Find Windows Firewall and enable it, I found it very important for this tutorial, as I always failed to setup shared connection just because this simple stupid thing.

If you already enable it, then back to your command prompt (CMD) and type below commands:

netsh wlan set hostednetwork mode=allow ssid="YOUR HOTSPOT NAME" key=y0uR_p455w0rD

then you’ll see info like below:

C:\Users\Leoui>netsh wlan set hostednetwork mode=allow ssid="YOUR HOTSPOT NAME" key=y0uR_p455w0rD
The hosted network mode has been set to allow.
The SSID of the hosted network has been successfully changed.
The user key passphrase of the hosted network has been successfully changed.

Alright, go to START>Control Panel\Network and Internet\Network Connections
You’ll find new setting “Microsoft Virtual WiFi Miniport Adapter” which means that you have successfully configured your shared connection!

Adapter Setting

One more thing, you need to right click on this new setting and go to Properties. Find tab “Sharing” and tick the “Allow other network users to connect through…” and choose you current active connection. Click OK!

Now, back to your command prompt (CMD) and type below command:

netsh wlan start hostednetwork

Well, now check your desire WiFi device that you want to connect, search this network from your WiFi device (mine is E71) and connect using password that you’ve configured previously.

To stop this service, just simply type below command:

netsh wlan stop hostednetwork

That’s it! It’s work for me and I hope this tutorial more simple than others and also helps you find the problem when setup Shared WiFi Connection. Enjoy!